Linda Frazee

This week, we begin a fascinating three part series about flow and synchronicity with author and physicist, Sky Nelson Isaacs. 

Have you ever wondered if there was more to the story of being in the "right" time and "right" place?

We explore this, and so much more, with Sky Nelson-Isaacs on this initial interview.

Members of the Authentic Wisdom Community are rewarded with three additional conversations with Sky and I, where we dive deeper into the specific enneagram types and the concept of synchronicity.

Inside Authentic Wisdom, you'll find these three additional interviews:

-Flow & Synchronicity with the Head-based types
-Flow & Synchronicity with the Heart-based types
-Flow & Synchronicity with the Instinct-based types

You can join Authentic Wisdom HERE.

Sky wrote the book: "Living in Flow: The Science of Synchronicity and How Your Choices Shape Your World", which can be purchased from Amazon HERE.

You can check out Sky's course HERE. 

Linda Frazee
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Today, I want to talk to you about your internal board of directors!

Have you ever thought for a moment that you are really the CEO of your own company? The part of you that's choosing your whole entire life? And that inside yourself you have a 'board of directors.' You may not have consciously chosen them, but they're there now!

So why is there an internal board of directors inside you? Well, that's because those are the people who are closest to you. When you were born, probably your parents, your relatives, your neighbors, your friends, the influencers in your life when you were small - whether they were kind or not, whether they liked you, whether you like them, whether they bullied you, or whether they were the big cheerleaders in your life... that's who's inside you for your internal board of directors! Those early influencers are still there!

They haven't gone away and they've been giving their opinion and voting on your decisions and criticizing your choices all these many...

Hi, I'm Linda Frazee, and I want to talk to you today about a more positive perspective for the holidays.

This is such an intense time for people getting ready with all that the season demands and everything that goes along. It can really be hard to keep your balance in this busy, busy time!

Sometimes people just get exhausted or they get tired, or they just say, 'what? This isn't even worth it!' And by the time they get through the holidays they don't even enjoy it. They don't even remember it.

In my work with people I've discovered there's three major categories of attitudes.

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Number one is make it go away. 'I don't even want to participate.' 'Everything about the holidays at this time of year drives me crazy.' 'I don't like anything.' 'Just let me know when it's over.'

The second attitude is, 'okay, I'm going through the emotions, and I'm counting the days until it's over.' 'It always costs more than what I think.' I spent too much money, I...

Hi, my name is Linda Frazee, and I am so excited to tell you about the birth of my online community.

It's called Authentic Wisdom.

I've been working on this project for nine months, putting it together and finally today it's being born.

This is an online community for people who are interested in the Enneagram and who like to know more about it. It's also for those who would be interested in intuition and synchronicity, and also just being more healthy in their own wellness.

Those three subjects are my primary focus in teaching within this community. It will have panels of people for you to find your type, and to learn about the Enneagram and use it in every walk of life. From your work to your home, to your relationships with your kids or your grandchildren, the romantic partner that you wish to have, or even your best friend with synchronicity.

I'm helping people with the aid of guest speakers who are experts in this subject. Helping you to be in the right place at...

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If you've ever driven a car, you know what a blind spot is. That blind spot is when you can't see either with your rear view mirror or your side mirror what's behind you. That inability to see can cause an accident because in that just short period of time, someone could be behind you and sideswipe you, or any number of things can happen. So we have to be very careful as drivers.

Now, just in case you've never driven a car, it's important for you to understand that just one second can cause a problem. So that's how it is in driving. But the interesting thing is in our personalities, we can also have blind spots!

I'm Linda Frazee, and I teach a system called the Enneagram. It has nine 'types' and it teaches you very carefully about your blind spots if you choose to listen and become aware of them.

We can't change anything that we're not aware of. And so becoming aware of our blind spots is very important.

Now let's back up a little. There are positive...

Most people, when asked, will say that they want more freedom!

Freedom from financial stress. Perhaps freedom from pain - from physical or emotional stress or discomfort if that is in play. And perhaps, there may be a desire for freedom from a relationship.

It's interesting, especially in the United States, people seem to think that everything is greener on the other side of the fence!

'If I just had more money, everything would be okay.'
'If I won the lottery, that would do it right there.'

We have this imagination of things getting better: if I got married, if I had a baby, if I got divorced. Whatever it is, we have a tendency to think that freedom comes from outside of ourselves.

But the truth is you can never feel free with anything outside of you. Even extensive wealth - if you're not free and trusting inside.

There's a very dynamic relationship between freedom and trust, and I want to talk to you about that today.

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My name is Linda Frazee and...

As you age, your energy changes.

There's no doubt about it. And for some of us, it seems like it's changing even more, than it seems it is for others. Barring any chronic disease, or any drastic kind of physical experience, there is still a reduction in our energy - and how we manage that as we age is a really important thing.

My name is Linda Frazee, and I've been working with people for 40 years to improve their success and their satisfaction with their lives as they are - and possibly, going forward.

And as I grow older, I'm working more with older people. Helping them understand how they can enjoy these last years without so much fear and trepidation.

So let's talk a little bit about that. One of the things that's important to understand is that whatever your model is for aging - that's changed -- a lot! What I mean by that is, it's true, now, 50 is the new 30 and 70 is the new 50!

You know, our lives at this age really has changed from what our grandparent's and...

Hi everybody!

I want to talk about resistance.

I think almost every human being finds themselves sometimes resisting what they NEED to do and even sometimes what we WANT to do! And why is that? It's an interesting thing that we do and almost everyone I know has done it at least at one point in their life and sometimes several times a day.

My name is Linda Frazee and I teach a system called the Enneagram, which is a personality system that helps us understand ourselves at a very deep level. I've been doing this for about 40 years and in that period of time I have seen a lot of people through the years go through some resistance and of course, I've had my own as well.

The Enneagram has nine different personality types in it. And today I'm going to talk to you about how each one of them goes through resistance or how it shows up, I should say.

The first type is a 'One' - and they are the perfectionist. Very often they wait to do things or they resist doing them because they don't think...

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I am Who I Am in Relationships: Accessing Authentic Wisdom Through the Enneagram

Today, I want to talk about how opposites attract in relationships and sometimes the problems that causes.

You know, it's no secret that if an introvert is in a relationship or romantic relationship with an extrovert, that can cause problems. One person wants to go out when another person wants to stay in.

Sometimes it's the opposite - somebody who likes to save a lot of money where somebody else likes to spend it. Any kind of an opposite when you're dating can seem very charming and interesting - and yet down the road it can be complicated and cause problems.

So what do we do with that?

Well, it doesn't mean that you can't have a relationship with somebody who's got an opposite trait or opposite personality than you. As a matter of fact, you might have noticed that that often happens because it's true that opposites do attract!

I am Linda Frazee. And I have been working with...

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If I had a dollar for every time someone has said to me, "I am who I am!" And they usually say it with this emphatic voice, like 'whatever you're doing, I'm NOT going to change!'

Now a lot of the time people think that they're being asked of someone around them - 'Oh, that's just a response. Somebody suggested they change or modify their behavior.' It's like 'I am who I am', but the truth is, unless there is an extreme example of being asked to change, most of the time the request is for some softer, smaller change that could enhance the relationship or at work or at home.

My name is Linda Frazee and I've been working with people, individuals, companies, couples - for 40 years, helping them get better with communication and enjoying their lives. Now, I've worked with companies all over the country and these patterns that we get individually and in these invisible patterns that individuals and people have - often result in this attitude like 'I am who I...